Thursday, July 26, 2012

Broken hearts in GO train

Copy-paste from the newspaper that I read every evening on the GO, over 5-6 days in the Shout Out section:

@justastrangernow: did you hear anything?
When I read your S/O it was as if I had wrote it
myself. I starting seeing someone and I thought
he was the one. After a few months, things
changed. I miss him so much. I don’t really know
what to do, and I don’t know why? feelingalone

@feelingalone: No, I haven’t heard from her and
never will. Funny how some people express their
true feelings hoping that the other person will
never know the truth. Out of sight, out of mind
I guess. I use to find a silent comfort in knowing
that I mattered to her, but clearly I don’t matter
any more. No one to blame but myself for clinging
to this stupid hope and falling for a person who
doesn’t care for me. I learned that there is no
fate, just coincidences. - Justastrangernow

@justastrangernow: Not 100% certain you are
writing to me. I wrote something similar to a
man I care for, but not a year ago. I read your
response to @feelingalone & I’m still not sure,
but do want to reach out. Maybe you should try
calling her. I know I’ve thought about calling him,
but I’m scared of rejection. I miss having him as a
work husband, miss his charm, sense of humour.
I’m urging you to get past her not responding
to your S/O, as you can’t be certain she read it.
He has been out of sight for 6 months, but I still
think of him. We had something that comes once
in a lifetime. It’s a shame ... @still your sweetie

justastrangernow: it’s hard when you fall for
someone who is in love with someone else.
It’s harder when you think they loved you but
realize too late that they never really cared @
feelingalone

Hey Justastrangernow: All of us fellows who
are unlucky with the opposite sex are feeling
your pain, man. And since you now have some
free time to ponder whether life is of fate or
coincidence, I propose an ideally suited summer
reading novel to help you along: Bridge of San
Luis Rey, by Thornton Wilder. Georgetown Gord


Not just girls are broken hearted. This is something good, something that should make women believe that love does exists. And on the other side, is a proof to men that women are mean. What is the truth? What should we take as a fact? Maybe there are men out there that might think like this about me. I have been in situations like this before myself. I don't know what to say but sometimes we do fall for the wrong person, and sometimes the wrong person gets closer to us and makes us believe things we should not believe, makes us feel emotions we should not feel for them and makes us fall in love with the person we should not.


Sometimes immersing yourself in that one other person on an otherwise ordinary day, can be the best highlight of the day.They can bring out things in you which may never normally express or feel.I used to have a daily travelling companion and our conversations were sometimes the only thing I used to look forward to. Our talks could be elaborate, stupid, complex and sensual – all at the same time. I miss this person a lot in ways that are hard to define, and I still haven’t found a suitable replacement for my fellow traveller. - Anonymous <3

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